11 Sex Mistakes Men Make (And How to Avoid Them)
A little tweak here, a little communication there, and—BAM!—a better connection for the both of you, both in and out of the bedroom.
He skips the appetizer.
You know what we’re talking about here. All too often his raging hunger causes him to head straight for the main dish, when a little nibbling beforehand could go a long way. “A lot of women find that foreplay changes everything,” says Charlie Glickman, sex and relationships coach. “It’s like warming up before you work out—it just makes sex work better.” So next time he tries to skip over it, embrace your inner vixen. Instead of telling him to slow down, “be a little teasing or withhold intercourse in a sexy way,” says sex therapist Vanessa Marin. “Saying something like, ‘No, I’m not going to let you go there yet’ or encouraging him to help you climax before intercourse even begins makes it feel playful, rather than a slap on the wrist.”